Okay… you may not like this about me…
BUT…
I always always let people know, % usually early on, that if you work with me, I’ll likely be the ONLY person in your life telling you to stick it out in their marriage.
Seriously every first call. And this is often with people who have had pastors or counselors and friends and family encourage them to divorce.
Why do I do that?
I’ve lived it.
All that.
But through all of it, I held onto ONE THING …
I believed God.
I believed the verses about how Jesus leveled up the bar on divorce in Matthew 19. Moses allowed it because we had hard hearts.
Been there, too.
Look, I know you are hurting and your spouse is part of that. I know you have tried a bunch of stuff, maybe like I had, and done the counseling, therapy, retreats, and intensives. Maybe you have lost all hope. Maybe your family is half blown up or you are ready to quit.
Borrow my hope.
Let’s just visit for a minute. Maybe, like me, you haven’t tried the things I also didn’t know at the time – I can let you know fairly quickly if you can dare have a spec of hope again…
Email me “hope” and let’s chat. Coachnina(at)greaterimpact.org or if you got this via email, just reply.
It may save your marriage.
The very least you will get is understanding and prayer from someone who has been there, done that, bought the Tshirt, and has a different circumstance that did NOT include divorce.

Btw, all those people meant well, BUT they just didnt know the PROCESS that would actually change everything.
Love to you,
Nina
PS… If you are done waiting and already feel led to dive in, join us at https://greaterimpactwives.org grab a seat in the coaching plus Strength & Dignity and start the work to change your marriage!