Have you been thinking about divorce?
Are you Christian?
Do you have grounds for divorce?
At the risk of sounding old school and traditional, if you are a follower of Christ, it’s a fair question.
And, there IS a REASON you may be considering divorce…
Because you have been so lonely, discouraged, sad, frustrated, hurt, and even angry … for a long time.
Hopeless even…
Holy Spirit has probably already answered your question about grounds, but you are either so miserable you are still thinking about it… OR you DO have grounds but have seen the stats around how affairs don’t need to terminate the marriage – and some come out even stronger…
Can I just encourage you for a second?
Borrow my hope.
I’ve been there, even talked to the lawyers (as did my husband) AND had literally everyone around me (and him) telling us to divorce.
Know this is because your people LOVE you and to see you hurting.
They also don’t know what to do to help.
I’ve seen too many pastors, counselors, and therapists recommend divorce because they don’t know what else to do – they may be great at helping a couple navigate the weekly conflict, but if they don’t focus on the right INPUTS into the marriage, create a foundation of friendship and trust using the data around what actually WORKS, AND follow a proven PLAN…
Well we know how that ends.
It nearly ended that way for us.
But we both believed God more than our pain, and He healed our marriage.
Even after multiple counselors, therapists, intensives, workshops, you name it, we did it.
God healed our marriage and I believe He is big enough to heal yours also.
Want that for yourself? Join us at the conference this year – use discount 70special to get $70 off! We close registration August 31.
Most scholars believe Jesus raised the bar on divorce – saying Moses allowed for it because our hearts were hard.
There IS a way – and no, it isn’t a “submit more” path – it’s wrong to enable sin against you, and harshness is sin. We can show you the way, and YES, you have likely tried a lot of things, you probably haven’t done THIS.
Don’t give up til we talk.
Just respond to this via email at coachnina(at)greaterimpact. I’ll send you my calendar and we can visit for a few minutes about the plan that facilitates change.
Love to you,
Nina
PS… if you already know you want to get started, come to the conference – find out more here: https://greaterimpact.org