I’m working with a married couple in crisis right now. If I were to share with you the nitty gritty details of their issues, you’d think, “There’s no way this will get better.” What’s so exciting to me is that the core of their problems isn’t any different than the core of Adam and Eve’s issues …
Last night, when my husband came upstairs to go to bed, he woke me. He didn’t mean to do so, but it happened. Not because he’s inconsiderate, thoughtless and rude, but because he was half-asleep when he came into the bedroom (he’d fallen asleep on the couch). After lying awake for about half an hour, …
You are wondering: Why is my marriage so hard? Your struggle is one that is common to women in this culture. I’m not going to talk about that here. There’s a hundred reasons in the culture, our upbringing, etc., to blame for this, but the source of the struggle when we know the Truth is …
Picking up Christmas wrapping on my hands and knees, marveling at the lack of effort from anyone else in my family, I seethed with anger and resentment. Masters degree, fabulous part-time career (that could have been full time if I had wanted it) three great kids, house in the suburbs, and I felt like all my …