Do you really want a better marriage?
If you have resigned yourself to suffering and the belief that you need to that you need to “just pray and submit more” and “he will come around,” know that is super unlikely – not that I’m doubting your relationship with God, but there are likely some unhealthy beliefs you have, maybe even demonic strongholds keeping you stuck, believing that being mistreated is normal for a Christian marriage.
Last time I checked, the Word says Jesus came to set the captives free, to bring sight to the blind, and heal the broken hearted. I’m living proof that God is still in the transformation business.
If your husband is harsh toward you and you are being “long suffering” by hanging out for his tirades and swearing … well that is giving evil an audience.
Worse yet, if he is harsh and you are harsh in return, that’s returning evil for evil.
It hasn’t worked to make things better, has it?
Most of the people around you don’t know how to help. They love you and don’t want you to continue to struggle, so yes, they will encourage you to be done. They mean well. It is hard on them to see you suffer.
If you are looking for someone who will likely see a possibility no one else has, and you are willing to try something different (and no, Im not talking about literally anything you have ever heard of before… I have looked, and so far, we are the ONLY ones using this method) let’s talk.

Reach out to coachnina(at)greaterimpact.org with “hope” and we will set a time to visit.
If we can help, I will let you know.
Doing nothing is also a choice to keep things the same. I know that maybe hard to hear, but someone needs to tell you.
Love to you,
Nina
If you know right now it’s time to hop into coaching or our Strength & Dignity course, here you go: https://greaterimpactwives.org