Fixing a marriage is a lot like trying to drop the 20-30 lbs you put on… they didn’t appear overnight and it’s hard to start the work. We know success is found in hundreds of tiny decisions made over the course of every day.
Doing nothing usually piles more weight on.
Doing nothing is also a choice for your marriage.
“But I tried all the things,” you may say – and I’m not going to say you haven’t … I thought I did too… BUT maybe like me, you tried them at the wrong TIME or with the wrong MOTIVE or in the wrong WAY – well that’s contributed to where you are.
Please don’t hear judgment from me here – I’ve made all these mistakes and more – and found His Way through it all and overcome separation and see His glory on the daily.
I want that for you.
His ways are higher than our ways and don’t look like we think they will.
We went from talking to attorneys to being friends again and being able to be grateful for each other.
I may be the only person in your life willing to stand for that with you. Borrow my hope.
We all know that consistent modest effort with a decent diet and working out will reshape your body in six months. I’m suggesting we talk about that possibility for your marriage if you are ready for a PROVEN PLAN to change things.
(Yes, in six months)
If all you have done is read books then talk the “issue of the week” with a therapist or five, odds are you aren’t putting the right solution in place to build a stronger healthier marriage.
It’s not therapy.
It’s not counseling.
It’s spiritual, communication, and relationship healing, coaching, plus training, based on 40+ years of SOLID double blind studies on over 4000 couples. Plus it’s Biblically based.
Message me “plan” if you are ready to take action. We’ll set up a time to talk, even if your spouse isn’t interested – s/he may be when we are done. And even if they aren’t, there is still stuff YOU can do.
This is what one of our clients recently said:
I honestly couldn’t have imagined my marriage could ever be in this place. Greater Impact has made such a difference and it’s life changing on so many levels! – Cindi
Please don’t think that’s because we are so awesome – this is the work that GOD does in YOU when you choose to follow Him in this space. Let me know if you want to visit!
Love to you,
Nina
