It’s probably NOT what you think, either.
Carol changed the way she handled her husband’s behavior.
Her husband then changed.
Her marriage is now wildly different.
This is a thing.
Not only did Carol do this, but so have MANY other wives. It’s possible. I know because I have seen it with my own eyes. I’ve also worked dramatic change in my own marriage.
You may think you have tried everything – and let’s be honest – you HAVE done a LOT…
BUT… maybe like me, and the majority of women I’ve worked with… most of it sounded like COMPLAINT or over-serving.
That didn’t (and won’t) yield results.
So maybe then you dragged him to counseling.
Do you know that fails around 80% of the time?
Focusing on the “problem of the week” INSTEAD of the PROVEN positive inputs and a conflict skills PLAN usually ends in more misery or divorce.
Look, I’ve done this in my own marriage and I’d like to help you do it in yours. And I’ve helped a bunch of others (men and women) turn their marriage around also.
When no one else believed it was possible.
When people had even labeled the situation abusive, said a spouse was dealing with a narcissist…
Sometimes there are things even counselors don’t know about your situation.
It won’t be easy to bail – and often that looks like an easier solution, but we know it isn’t. What if it isn’t even necessary?
If you are serious about changing your marriage, reach out to me with PLAN and let’s chat about what might be possible.
Just email me at coachnina(at)greaterimpact.org or reply to this email. I’m guessing that not unlike me, there were things you probably didn’t know that might be able to help – and if we don’t think they can we won’t try to work with you.
Over 95% of the couples we work with are still together and more connected over a year later.
Let’s see if you can be one of them!

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