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Are you really serious?

If you say, “I would do anything I could to change and save my marriage,” but then say you can’t invest in comparatively inexpensive coaching or a $37/month course to actually learn what the Bible and quality research has to say about that…

Well, you aren’t really serious.

If you say, “If I spend money/take the time/attend the trainings/ my spouse will just get mad,” understand that is super unhealthy and a thing that needs to stop.

That alone would be the reason to at least get in our free space or hop on a call with me.

If you are believing that you need to keep suffering and “just pray and submit more” and “he will come around,” know that is super unlikely – not that I’m doubting your relationship with God, but there are likely some unhealthy beliefs you have, maybe even demonic strongholds keeping you stuck, believing this is normal for a Christian marriage.

Last time I checked, the Word says Jesus came to set the captives free, to bring sight to the blind, and heal the broken hearted. I’m living proof that God is still in the transformation business.

If your husband is harsh toward you and you are being “long suffering” … well that is giving evil an audience.

Worse yet, if he is harsh and you are harsh in return, that’s returning evil for evil.

Not working, is it?

Most of the people around you don’t know how to help. They love you and don’t want you to continue to struggle, so yes, they will encourage you to be done. They mean well. It is hard on them to see you suffer.

If you are looking for someone who will likely see a possibility no one else has, and are willing to try something different (and I’m talking about something you have never heard of before… I have looked, and so far, we are the ONLY ones using this method) let’s talk.

Reach out with “hope” and we will set a time to visit.

If we can help, I will let you know.

Love to you,

Nina

Are you really serious?

May 3, 2024
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