What if you are causing conflicts by accident?
He’s complaining and you want to help him, want to encourage him, give him a different point of view… and everything goes south?
Wondering what happened?
I can’t tell you how many times I see this. And I understand completely – you want to help others see the silver lining, right? Help them be more positive, right?
Well, be careful…
You might be stirring up the hornet’s nest!
I call it, “Positive Arguing.”
It’s positive.
It’s looking on the bright side.
Finding those rose-colored glasses and putting them on.
But it’s likely to cause a conflict or shut him down completely.
I made a short 1 minute video about it and what to do instead. Hope you like it!
Looking forward to making more of these. Subscribe to my channel and help me get the word out?
Love to you,
Nina
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Here’s a few more posts on conflict:
When someone undermines your authority
3 Things you simply must do in conflicts