Wondering what you need to know about boundaries?
They matter. Boundaries are a demonstration of self-respect and respect for the other person, and the relationship. Trouble is, most people either use them as weapons or don’t have them at all. Some have read the Boundaries book by Cloud & Townsend and know what to do, others then find the concept even more confusing.
“You’re going with me tonight, right?” Lisa asked her husband, Daryl, when he walked into the family room.
His heart beat a bit faster.
He hated it when she did this.
He’d already told her he was meeting his friends for dinner.
Twice.
He couldn’t help it if she had a social she decided to go to after she learned his plans. “No, I am still going with the guys. We can do something tomorrow night.”
Lisa felt the emotions begin to rise. Why was he like this? They never spent any time together, he was always going out with his friends…
The push-pull of negotiation is normal in relationships – to a certain extent. The moment someone responds in an unhealthy way, boundaries start getting crossed, or a need for them arises.
Can you relate? Join Nina and Kyle as they talk this sticky issue dealing with fear, control, and what to do and not do with boundaries in today’s podcast video below, then add your thoughts or questions! Can’t wait to dialogue about this!
Check out our website https://greaterimpact.org to grab our eBook, “5 Tools to STOP Walking on Eggshells,” and change your relationships today!
Love to you,
Nina
…
PS… need BIG CHANGE in your relationship? Check out our Women’s Strength & Dignity Conference for 2022. Space is limited! Come be transformed 🙂