WOMEN: Stop Wanting it ALL. Dare 39

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Have you felt the pressure of the lies about wanting it all? One of the few things that makes me about half crazy frustrated at the mere mention of the subject is GENDER EQUALITY. Now, bear in mind, I'm NOT talking about equal pay for equal work. I'm also not saying that there aren't bad men out Continue Reading

But What if You Love Your Kids More Than God?

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Do you love your kids more than you love God? I did. I was wrong. In Twelve Truths to Change Your Marriage, there's a story about how I was sitting around a table with a bunch of women at Bible study  one morning and the Holy Spirit convicted me that I had something "on the throne" instead Continue Reading

Initiate… and Respect Dare #38

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Got Sex? 1 Corinthians 7:5 Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. I've received some challenging feedback Continue Reading

The Pain of Miscarriage… and Respect Dare 37

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I judged her. A friend of mine, still hurting from an unexpected but welcomed pregnancy lost in miscarriage, received judgment from me instead of compassion. She never knew, however, but as I've been praying in the recent weeks, asking God to reveal my sin to me, and then coincidentally Continue Reading

What to Do with Pain… and Dare Thirty-Six

whatever we pay attention to grows kids

Eyes wet, tears slipped down her face. Drowning in sorrow over wrong doing and lack of hope, she fought the hardening of her heart, somewhat unsuccessfully. She's waited for years for things to be different. Worked hard, obeyed, confessed. Whom could she talk to? Who would understand? To Continue Reading

We Are “In Trouble” and Respect Dare 35…

Dare to Stop Criticizing

Tears leaked, slid down dry cheeks, dripped onto my shirt. Permanent kidney damage was likely for a dear friend of mine, one who spent time serving our ministry weekly. After 5 days in the hospital, she was home, still fighting the infection that refused to bow to modern medicine. She was worn. Continue Reading

All Men Want is Sex… ??

101 ways to love your wife

About once a week, I hear from a man regarding something I've written. The latest submission explained very clearly one man's thoughts about what men want. What do you think? Here's what he said: I read your 101 things to do for your Husband. Nicely written - but purely from a woman's Continue Reading