How Can I Fix My Marriage?

Asparagus Tips

This afternoon, I asked my talented chef husband what he needed me to do for Easter dinner.  He told me to snap the asparagus and get it ready for cooking.  That was pretty much it, although I did help make the bread earlier in the day.  Knowing asparagus takes about 8 minutes,  I asked, "Do you Continue Reading

Why is This So Hard?

I've had enough personal messages and questions that I need to just post something more in depth.  Bottom Line - Women struggle with respect and submission.  WHY? Your struggle is one that is common to women in this culture.  I'm not going to talk about that here.  There's a hundred reasons in the Continue Reading

the respect dare … and His blessings

After the morning run today, and after filling my head (and heart) with His Word, I rested near our garden pond and listened to the water cascading over the rocks into the water.  Glancing back toward the house, I caught an interesting reflection in the large bay windows.  The reflection of a large Continue Reading

the respect dare… for non-Christians

So today, I had a discussion with someone at great length about how she can't possibly respect her husband - he needs to earn it, he hasn't done anything worthy of it...etc.  Problem is that she's not a Christian, so I had to approach her from a different angle...she didn't want to hear anything Continue Reading