3 Things You Need to Accept to Change Your Marriage

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“I don’t know what I should say if he asks me what God thinks about him,” she shared. “And he’s waiting for his partner to ask him to marry him – and I don’t know if I should go to the wedding.” My friend is a Christian and works along side a man who is […]

Tired of Christians? or Just the Judgment?

News days like this last week have caused me pause. I tend to stay out of the political discussions because I don’t usually feel led to go there… However… Today I do. And today, I am simply loving the fact that Christ said this: And Jesus answered, “O faithless and twisted generation, how long am […]

Ever Feel Like You’ve been Lied to?

Happens all the time, doesn’t it? 3 siblings. Each with a different version of what happened. Parent hears the most effective communicator of the 3 tell the story. Believes. Other parent hears the other 2’s versions… not sure who to believe. Parents discuss. They disagree. Get kids together. Go through the whole thing again. As […]

You CAN Change your Marriage…

Several days ago, a female acquaintance of mine asked me for advice. Her marriage, a train wreck, teeters on the ragged edge of despair, ready to crash in divorce. My heart aches for her, because she says she doesn’t know what to do, and she feels abandoned by God. “Why won’t He work a miracle […]

Want Some Gasoline with Your Fire?

“I don’t know what to do,” I whined to my mom. “She keeps going ‘thbbbbbpppt’ in my face and spraying me with spit. I just hate it.” “Slap her,” she said. Shocked at this suggestion, I winced at the thought. “You must slap this girl. Full across the face. HARD. She will keep doing this […]

How To Ruin Your Marriage…

For some reason, this morning when I read Proverbs 17, I was remembering years past, when my husband would travel frequently for work. He travels some now, but it’s nothing like it used to be, leaving on Sunday night and returning Friday evening. I smiled when I remembered how brusque and short he would be […]

Pass the Condemnation Please…

Perhaps the most common complaint I hear from a wife doing “The Respect Dare,” occurs after her husband does something nice for her. She will discount the gift, act of service, or kind words, usually because there’s something imperfect about it. “He’s just doing that because he has to.” “He doesn’t really feel that way.” […]