Do you ever wish he was dead?

overcome fears Annie

If your marriage is a mess, or even just difficult, have you ever wished he was dead? Have you ever wondered if you'd even miss your husband if he died? Or are you comfortable in your anger and hurt and can't wrap your brain around the thought? Maybe like me, you also take a lot for Continue Reading

How to Raise A Selfish Child…

A dear friend of mine told me this morning that it's truly impossible to shelter our children – she said, "My own sin did as much damage as anything in the world could have!" I know she's right. My sinful nature screams loudly and clearly a stark contrast to the Bible. And I've seen my Continue Reading

Want to Feel Beautiful?

Last night, the grill had to have the food on it at a certain time, otherwise dinner with family before carting everyone off to their evening music activities wasn't going to happen. There just wasn't any wiggle room, and I asked for help. I was assured I would receive it. When I returned from Continue Reading

Want a Good Marriage?

Fairly young in her faith walk, she didn't know that God specifically tells us in Malachi that He hates divorce. She also didn't know that while Moses originally allowed divorce, Jesus clearly told us not to do so. But she didn't know what to do. Her heart ached for connection with her Continue Reading


Last night, one of my teen boys came up from behind me when I was getting ready for bed, and sheepishly told me, "I'm sorry I was so rotten when we were doing math…" "I forgive you, baby." He'd been angry, but I knew it was at himself, and not me. He doesn't like to make math mistakes. Or any Continue Reading

Pass the Condemnation Please…

Perhaps the most common complaint I hear from a wife doing "The Respect Dare," occurs after her husband does something nice for her. She will discount the gift, act of service, or kind words, usually because there's something imperfect about it. "He's just doing that because he has to." "He Continue Reading

Driving Under the Influence of Anger…

I apologized to my husband for driving into the side of the garage. Acting childishly, and furious at him over something stupid (and not the point of this blog, so I won't go into it), I hastily pulled away, paying no attention to the enormous dwelling next to the vehicle, clipping the brick and Continue Reading