What does it mean to submit to your husband?

Have you ever wondered, “What does it mean to submit to your husband?” Or do you just kind of skim over those verses in the Bible, like I used to do, back in the dark ages, when we were first married? I’ve written on this topic a number of times, and I know it often […]

7 Steps to Stop Being Defeated by Conflicts …

Interested in trying a social experiment with me in your home? This might get weird, but work with me here… A little background first… Fact: I have spent over 20 years teaching others to overcome the fear of public speaking, using a method that works literally 100% of the time in building confidence for literally anyone […]

5 Steps to Putting the Brakes on Divorce…

Maybe you’re thinking about it. Maybe the dreaded, “D-word” has popped out of your mouth in a sentence. Maybe you find yourself thinking, “I can’t keep living like this. I need to get away from this pain.” Or… “I hate him/her.” Or even worse, “I feel nothing towards him/her anymore. Why am I even bothering?” […]

What Do You Really Believe?

Several years ago, after speaking with the pastor of a local church, I knew they were not going to end up hosting Daughters of Sarah®. At one point, she said to me, “You do realize that we use the Bible as a guideline, a historical reference, but it doesn’t dictate behavior for our denomination. We […]

Can She Leave Him?

She had read all the books, seen the counselor, been to the retreats and tried her best. Yes, she had prayed. Yes, she had cried. Yes. He still drank, womanized, was financially irresponsible, or whatever, but she felt scared and unloved and hurt. She hurt. What most men fail to realize is that most women […]

Who is Right?

Today in home school, my ten year old daughter, after reading aloud about the Revolutionary War, announced, “The British were stupid! They wore red hats and red coats and lined up…SO dumb!” “Some might say instead that the Americans cheated,” I replied. “That’s how you win at war,” said one of my teen boys. “Some […]

Want to Change Your Marriage?

I talk with men and women around the country nearly every day that are struggling in their marriages.  And I see many things that I’ve personally experienced. The most common factor is simply this: judgment. They judge their spouse as wrong and blame the other for their unhappiness.  I used to do the same thing, and […]