Quick TIP! For Handling An Angry Husband…

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Got an angry husband? You know that heart-pounding-freaking-out feeling that you hate? That moment where he's suddenly upset and you are surprised and then your own flight or fight response kicks in? One thing that might help is simply this: create safety for him. Know why he looks angry? Continue Reading

What Do You Do When Verbally Assaulted?

There are many things you can do when you are verbally assaulted, and if you have an angry man you are married to, or you have regular disagreements with people, you are probably wanting to know how to disagree with them without feeling like a doormat. Or maybe you are still wondering if you are Continue Reading

7 Steps to Stop Being Defeated by Conflicts …

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Interested in trying a social experiment with me in your home? This might get weird, but work with me here... A little background first... Fact: I have spent over 20 years teaching others to overcome the fear of public speaking, using a method that works literally 100% of the time in Continue Reading

Are You Destroying Your Marriage?

"You don't understand, if I don't do it, it won't get done." "He doesn't lead at home at all.  He doesn't even participate." "Why should I submit or respect? I'm the one doing everything in our family." My heart aches for those statements, and the women who make them. And unfortunately, I Continue Reading

How to Destroy a Man…

"I just hate the world, Mommy…" she said. "What?? Why?" I inquired. "I weigh 20 pounds more than all my friends. A few of them are on diets. I don't think I'm fat, but I'm not sure. And I keep thinking I should be dieting, too," she replies. Yikes. "And did you know there's girls Continue Reading

How to Calm Down an Angry Husband

Your husband says to you, "You never..." or "You always..." or whatever.  Your natural reaction is to be what?  How about ticked? Or hurt. Or worse yet, scared. But yes, probably angry.  Unless you are scared.  Or don't know what to do.  And that usually results in being a doormat.  Which doesn't Continue Reading