All Men Want is Sex… ??

101 ways to love your wife

About once a week, I hear from a man regarding something I've written. The latest submission explained very clearly one man's thoughts about what men want. What do you think? Here's what he said: I read your 101 things to do for your Husband. Nicely written - but purely from a woman's Continue Reading

Want To Change Your Husband…??

philippians 4 8

Want to change your husband? As in, put an end to the pain-style change him? Check out what this woman did... She's referring to this post, btw... I've been at this Respect Dare since last December. At times I've been greatly disappointed in myself-relapsing into old patterns of Continue Reading

One Way to Deeply Impact Your Marriage

be his best friend

If there was just ONE thing you could do that would deeply impact your marriage, would you do it? It's something women are wired to do easily. When my daughter was four years old, she had a friend whose kitten died. When she found out about it from the little girl’s mom, she told me, “I have Continue Reading

How do We Live?

whatever we pay attention to grows kids

This morning I had a discussion with one of my kids who was surprised by an opportunity. It involved the child's gifting, so I said participation was non-negotiable. Why? Because I fully embrace the notion that this life is all about His glory - not mine. And I'm trying to help my kids learn Continue Reading

Is This Modest? Respect Dare 30…

modest heart issue

Is This Modest? Respect Dare 30 is titled, "Too Much Skin." But...Why should it matter? It's oppressive to tell women what is considered modest, right? I mean, the next thing you know, we'll all end up in burkas to protect our sinful brothers, right? I find it interesting that in a culture Continue Reading

Dare 29… Abuse and Persecution…

dishing judgment

A few days ago, I received this in reference to my post on dealing with someone who verbally assaults you: My husband has in the past referred to me as ‘a piece of skin that he uses for sex’. I was so hurt about this but still chose to extend grace to him and continued the relationship with all Continue Reading

What Do You Do When Verbally Assaulted?

There are many things you can do when you are verbally assaulted, and if you have an angry man you are married to, or you have regular disagreements with people, you are probably wanting to know how to disagree with them without feeling like a doormat. Or maybe you are still wondering if you are Continue Reading