It’s in The Hands of God…

God IS.

In this you greatly rejoice, even though now for a little while, if necessary, you have been distressed by various trials, so that the proof of your faith, being more precious than gold which is perishable, even though tested by fire, may be found to result in praise and glory and honor at the Continue Reading

Quick TIP! For Handling An Angry Husband…

Defensiveness is the manifestation of

Got an angry husband? You know that heart-pounding-freaking-out feeling that you hate? That moment where he's suddenly upset and you are surprised and then your own flight or fight response kicks in? One thing that might help is simply this: create safety for him. Know why he looks angry? Continue Reading

Dare 29… Abuse and Persecution…

dishing judgment

A few days ago, I received this in reference to my post on dealing with someone who verbally assaults you: My husband has in the past referred to me as ‘a piece of skin that he uses for sex’. I was so hurt about this but still chose to extend grace to him and continued the relationship with all Continue Reading

What Do You Do When Verbally Assaulted?

There are many things you can do when you are verbally assaulted, and if you have an angry man you are married to, or you have regular disagreements with people, you are probably wanting to know how to disagree with them without feeling like a doormat. Or maybe you are still wondering if you are Continue Reading

Pssst… What Do YOU Think?

overcome fears Annie

Yesterday I asked women what they think of the marriage TIPS emails they receive from us. From the survey results so far, it seems like women generally love them and are helped by them, AND they are aching for more information about what to do with three major situations.  Maybe you've dealt with Continue Reading

Weekend Round Up for Respect …

eagle court of honor

It's Saturday night. I'm blogging. Jim's getting ready to pay taxes. Obviously it's not date night. But we had an awesome day celebrating with our Eagle Scout and family, and hundreds of other parents as their boys had their Eagle Court of Honor. #Privileged. I feel strongly about men Continue Reading

How to Destroy a Man…

"I just hate the world, Mommy…" she said. "What?? Why?" I inquired. "I weigh 20 pounds more than all my friends. A few of them are on diets. I don't think I'm fat, but I'm not sure. And I keep thinking I should be dieting, too," she replies. Yikes. "And did you know there's girls Continue Reading