Why is My Marriage So Hard?

how our relationships with others reflects our relationship with God...

You are wondering: Why is my marriage so hard? (I’m going to get to this in a second, and you’ll need to hang with me here. I know that if your marriage is so hard you are grasping at anything, you’re going to want to read this AND stick it out to the bottom – […]

Is he right about submission?

Am interested in hearing your response here – seriously would like to know what YOU think about this guy and if he’s right about submission! 🙂 My husband insists that I ‘obey’ him. He says that ‘submit’ is exactly the same as obedience and that I am sinning by not doing everything he says without […]

How to mess up your marriage…

A few people near and dear to me are getting married soon – and I wanted to encourage them (and us all) by sharing our “best advice” and those things that really can mess up your marriage. I’d love you to join in with your suggestions in the comments today. Remember, we don’t give advice […]

Submissive Wife? Will it Save Her Marriage?

A friend of mine tried everything to save her marriage. She is what any mature Christian woman would call a “submissive wife” – know there’s a difference between that and being a doormat. More here if it’s confusing. And no, I’m not talking about writing up a contract to allow some guy to whip you. […]

2 Wise Women We Want to Be When We Grow Up…

There’s probably a ton more than 2 wise women we should attempt to be like. I don’t know about you, but I have some wise women friends that just blow my mind with how mature they are. One of my friends is going through a hard time right now. Her husband did something awful. I’m […]

Thank You…

I walked down the hall of the hospital, the green-grey walls and fluorescent lighting sucking the life out of me. Heading toward a restaurant aptly named, “Au Bon Pain” which is supposed to mean, “The Good Bread” or something in French, I saw her. Crying Girl. The fourth or fifth crying woman I’d seen wandering […]

3 Tips to Finding Joy in Suffering

Sitting in the sanctuary with about 1000 people yesterday during “open mic,” I prayed, “If you want me to say something, Lord, You’ll need to calm my heart. I really don’t want to get up and do this.” I seldom get nervous about speaking in public, but for some reason, He and I sometimes have […]

What Are YOU Waiting For?

My mind was elsewhere, and I looked at her. I saw my friend and coworker’s mouth moving, and couldn’t answer the question she was asking. It was something about upcoming possibilities with the ministry, but because it was a future situation, all I could think about was how dramatically different things might be…if my husband […]